Tone and Facial Expressions

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These are the answers I wrote of some questions that were shared in Thinkers' Club. This is also shared on Thinkers' Club's blog, but I'm sharing them here too, because they are detailed answers that took me a long time to write.

What is the role of tone and facial expressions in our communication?

Our tone and facial expressions have a very important role in our communication. If a person really means what he or she is saying, their tone and facial expressions would match their words. For example, if I’m persuading someone to do something, my tone would be determined and I wouldn’t look angry or bored. But if I’m pretending to be nice to someone I actually hate, my fake smiles might even be detectable and my tone could even give the game away.

Is it possible for a person to be fully responsible for his\her tone?

In a way yes, and in another way, no. I think our tones depend on our mood and feelings at that moment. A person may sound unintentionally rude at some time because something has made him or her feel angry. Or he may sound happy because of something else.
I think there is always a reason for the tone we use. The reason may lie in our statement or in something else. I think that if our tone used is according to what we are saying, then we can control it, but if a certain tone is because of something else (i.e.;  other than what we are saying) then we can’t control it.

Can we control our facial expressions?


I don’t think we can control most of our facial expressions that come by naturally. The only facial expressions that we can control are the ones we show on purpose, like in acting.

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  1. Azka Javeria24 November 2015 at 08:19

    They are really very good answers, but I think that one can control his/her facial expressions if he makes conscious effort. That is why we are called 'humans' of course, because we can control or emotions our expressions and our actions. Without that I think we are just lost people with animal instincts. You get what I'm saying?

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    1. Fatima Salman Siddiqui27 November 2015 at 09:08

      Yes, you are right. But that is when we make conscious effort. I am talking about everyday stuff we say without thinking. Yes I get what you're saying.

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