How homeschoolers study
A question that I have often been asked
during the four and a half years since we started homeschooling is about how we
manage to study at home. ‘Do your parents teach you?’ People ask. ‘Does your
father teach you? Or does your mother teach you?’ They ask with curiosity. ‘No
one teaches us.’ I always answer truthfully. ‘We study by ourselves.’
While this fact is hard for many people to
accept, I don’t see why this is impossible. With amazing textbooks for each
subject, plenty of reference material and resources, access to libraries and bookstores,
and limitless help from the internet, it is very feasible for a student to
study on his\her own. In this article, I intend to give an insight into how I –
and several other homeschoolers – take charge of their studies.
Taking charge of your studies:
The first thing that I realized as a
homeschooler was that I am responsible for my studies. Unlike at school, where
someone teaches you something and then gives you questions and worksheets
related to it. In homeschooling, you have to do all that by yourself. You have
to responsibly take charge of your learning and make your own timetables, and
daily, monthly, and even yearly targets. Because no one will tell you what you
have to do. You have to decide what you have to study, by yourself, as you are
the one in charge.
Making targets:
In order to organize our studies, it is
essential to make our own study targets. I have seen children as young as in
second or third grade making their own study targets. We homeschoolers usually
have our own monthly plans about what we would like to study that month. The
plans include the chapters of certain books that we’d like to study, books
which we intend to read, places we’d like to visit, people\ scholars we would
like to meet and interview, activities we would like to carry out, experiments
we would like to conduct, and events we plan to attend or organize. The targets
and plans, though organized and well-planned, are extremely flexible, so that
we are able to achieve most of what we want to, and don’t miss out on anything
else if it is not in our plan. And the targets are always practical and
achievable. While keeping high expectations and positive hopes, we would never
expect anything impossible from ourselves or each other.
Having a proper study space:
In order to be productive in our studies,
it is essential to have an organized studying environment, with minimal
distractions, so that you can stay focused on your task. There must be
sufficient light, preferably sunlight in the daytime, and ventilation in order
to make the place comfortable and airy. There should be a white board, stationary
materials, and books for studying and referencing. Having a proper environment
contributes greatly to our studies, as we can work more easily in there rather
than any other part of the house that isn’t designed as a study space.
Love of books and balanced reading:
Ever since our early childhood, we have
loved books, which hold a special place in our house and hearts. This immense
love for books has led us to buying and collecting huge amounts of books. Our
house itself is a small library, as it has thousands of books on a variety of
topics and genres. We also enjoy visiting bookstores and libraries, and reading
new books.
However, you may wonder what kind of books
one should read. It is ideal to adopt a balanced reading approach. Balanced
reading has various meanings: It means balancing fiction and non-fiction
choices in buying and reading. It means balancing studies on subjects like pure
sciences and social sciences. It also means balancing your readings in your
mother tongue and other languages.
Self-tests:
Sometimes, we like to create our own tests
for ourselves and solve them. They are not to measure our intelligence or
creativity; rather, they are a tool to check how much we have learnt about a
certain subject or topic. When preparing for board exams, we also solved past
examination papers and then checked our answers from the marking schemes
provided. Marking our own papers was a great experience as we learnt a lot from
our mistakes.
Blogging:
A big part of our homeschooling circles
around our blogs. Many homeschoolers have their own blogs and they post
regularly on them. Our blogs are basically our portfolios, where we post our
writings, artwork, and descriptions of our regular activities. Through
blogging, we also connect to other young people online from different parts of
the world, and comment on their blogs as well. Getting feedback and comments on
our posts is an important feature of blogging, which also helps us improve our
work. Blogs are also very useful as they store all our work in one place, which
we can easily access whenever we want to.
Mentors:
Homeschooling does not mean that we do not
have any teachers at all. We do have teachers, but they are in fact, much more
thanordinary teachers. They are mentors. Mentors do not have to be outsiders,
and they need not act like a teacher at all. A mentor can be a parent, a
grandparent, an aunt, an uncle, or even a friend. Basically, a mentor is a
person who guides a less experienced person through building trust and
modelling exemplary life. Mentors are wise people who guide you through your
life.
Attending meaningful programs:
As homeschoolers don’t have to go to school
and tuitions, they have a lot of time to engage in meaningful activities. Among
those activities is attending workshops, talks, literary events, and other
programs of their interest. During our homeschooling, we got opportunities to
attend workshops on study skills, developing a career vision, art and design,
goal setting, photography, woodwork, healthy eating, and several other topics.
Since we had ample of time after our studies, we could pursue the skills we
learnt in those workshops as our hobbies.
Below is a table that suggests how
homeschoolers can benefit from meeting people, visiting places, reading books,
using the internet and other materials, and having regular and
occasional
activities.
Suggested options for homeschoolers that can
support them in studies:
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People
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Places
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Books
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Internet
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Other material
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Regular activities
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Occasional activities
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Parents & grandparents
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Museums
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Biographies
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Khan Academy
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Collection
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Reading
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Exhibitions
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Scholars
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Libraries
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Language dictionaries
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YouTube
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Globe and compass
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Discussions
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Drama/ role plays
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Writers
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Exhibitions
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Subject dictionaries
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Google
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Tools for experimentation
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Book reviews
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Preparing test papers
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Teachers
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Historical sites
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Thesaurus
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Coursera
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Big writing board &
markers
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Recitals of poetry, stories
& other texts
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Wood work/ gardening
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Senior students
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Farms and nurseries
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Various textbooks
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TED talks
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Art material
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Self-test
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Volunteer work
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Other professionals
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Offices
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Reference books
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Blogger
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Measuring instruments
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Making presentations
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Travelling
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Overcoming
obstacles:
While studying, it is quite natural to get
stuck in any concept and not fully understand it. School going children always
have teachers to help them go through the difficult stuff, but how do
homeschoolers manage it? Different homeschoolers have different ways to tackle
the challenges they encounter, and I can tell you how I handle the difficulties
I find. For example, if I come across any concept in Maths that I do not
understand, I go back a few pages and study the things that came before it. Sometimes,
that is enough for me to understand it, and I can continue with my work.
Sometimes, I consult other textbooks and reference material on that subject and
resolve my confusions through getting exposed to another style of explanation
on the topic. But at times, I still don’t understand it. In those cases, I open
my laptop and go to Khan Academy (an amazing website that I visit when I need
help in Math). Watching a couple of tutorials and doing a few practice
questions on Khan Academy is usually more than enough to understand any
concept. Similarly, if I am stuck in any other subject, I can Google it up and
understand it from various websites. You can also find amazing tutorials on YouTube
for about everything; whether you want to learn calligraphy or understand a
science concept. If you would like someone to explain a certain concept to you,
you can always take help from your parents. I take help from them occasionally,
when I need it, and they are always willing to help me out. Parents should also encourage children in their work and keep positive expectations from them.
However, not all homeschoolers study that
way. Some prefer to attend classes and get help from qualified teachers of
certain subjects. Some homeschoolers find a few subjects too difficult to be
studied on their own, and so they attend tuitions for them. Others accept the
challenge and study them on their own. I can assure that homeschoolers, who
study by themselves and \ or take some extra help, are very much successful and
happier than those who study under pressure in schools.
Wonderful and amazing Fatima
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DeleteA very informative and in depth article on homeschooling from the very person who went through the process.in your own words"I m responsible for my own studies" is the essence of homeschooling. Unfortunately the assumed disability is the top reason we school our kids. We dont trust that kids are capable of taking charge of their own growth and can lead their lives in the right direction, didn't they teach themselves their native language.
ReplyDeleteI would love to see an article on the beginning of homeschooling. Like people ask how do you home school? They also ask I've thought of homeschooling my kids, now what?Tell us about risks, hurdles and the transition period from schooling to deschooling.
Once again bravo on an insightful article.
Thank you. I totally agree with your view. It is amazing how children teach themselves their native language, we have a lot to learn from that.
DeletePeople do often ask that sort of questions. I am planning some more writings, I might share them here as well. Would you like to share your identity- who you are, as you commented as unknown.
Hi Fatima
DeleteI am Saima Faisal. I am a PTCC graduate and home school aspirant. Your father told me about the article so here I am. Its good to know you plan some more writings on the topic. Please do ponder over the idea that we might bring school to homeschooling thus jeopardize the very essence to HS. I dont have any ID on the recommended list :)
Happy writing!
Hi!
DeleteOkay. Yes, I know that. It is very disappointing to see some parents 'homeschooling' their children when in reality they are doing exactly what is done at school in their own home.
That's okay! :) Thanks.
MashaAllah Fatima!a very thoughtful and self explanatory article.I got the answers of many questions popped up in my brain.Allah bless you and give you the best reward for sharing your experiences.
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Deletefatima this was very well written! :D
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Thank you! I will.
DeleteFatima, this guide is so beautifully structured and gives a very helpful, straightforward insight into home-schooling! I can relate to a lot of this since I too am home-educated. :D
ReplyDeleteJust from reading this guide and looking at the way you've split it up into organised sections, I can tell you have a very organised schedule! And you're absolutely right - it's very important to have mentors, a personal library and good workspace without distractions. I also find it's really helpful to connect with other home-schoolers and listen to their advice too... it really helps that I'm on Blogger and other social media sites where I've met many other great home-schoolers like you! :)
Khan Academy is definitely a live-saver... I've learned so, so much in maths from having an account on there! xD (The videos are super helpful!!) Duolingo is also a really helpful site for learning languages. :D
Excellent post Fatima!! I'd really love to talk about home-schooling more with you but for now I must go! Keep writing! <3
I'd also quickly like to add that organised study targets is something I should try out! I've noticed that my timetable isn't properly organised and I'm not getting enough done so I end up having to cram chapters in my head at the end of the week (and on weekends)! xD Thanks for explaining it, that's something I'll suggest to my parents! How have your study targets worked out? :D One thing I love about home-schooling is, as you mentioned, it's totally flexible! At school they end up losing so much valuable time and apparently some teachers aren't willing to teach other students because they're either "unacademic" (on KA they always stress that you can learn anything though!) or they have favourites. :/ Not to mention, peer pressure is so severe at school (I'm sure you've heard! xD)... Something I've noticed is that many people who go to secondary school pick up bad words from their friends but pretty much every home-schooler I know is against swearing! I don't think that's a coincidence right? xD (not that everyone who goes to school swears, just a lot of them haha)
DeleteDo you mind if I show this home-schooler guide to some people I know? I'm sure they'd really benefit from it! :D
Hello Kenza! First of all, I am very very sorry for being so late in replying to your comment! I was very busy, and actually, a couple of days after you posted this comment, I wrote a very long reply to it, but it somehow signed out by itself, and my comment was lost! :( This happens sometimes.
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DeleteThank you very much! Oh, does it really make me sound so organized?! Well, I'm not that organized, but I do have my own targets, (though I'd achieve so much more only if I properly followed them! xD). Yeah, these things are absolutely essential. I agree that connecting with other homeschoolers is quite necessary too. Social media sites are useful as well, but I personally think that meeting people in real life is more important then that. Provided that the people you meet share your ideology and worldview.
That's so true! I don't know what I'd do without Khanacademy, it is so useful for understanding the mathematical concepts that I couldn't understand from textbooks. I haven't heard about Duolingo, I'll check it out soon. :)
Making study targets is pretty useful. I've noticed that when I plan out the things I have to do at the beginning of the day, I usually get a lot more work done than when I do not have an organized plan. The targets have usually worked out well, though I sometimes get behind on them, when I have other activities going on. Other than that, they are usually quite useful. Yeah, flexibility is an amazing aspect of homeschooling.
I have heard about this kind of stuff happening at schools. (Actually, I have been to school, and I was about ten when my parents made the decision to homeschool me and my siblings. So I have an idea of what typically happens in school.) Peer pressure is terrible; I have seen many teenagers and even children smoking these days, and it probably comes from peer pressure.
Now that you mention it, I agree that you are absolutely right about it that school-going people are often heard using bad words. When I visit public places, I often hear people swearing and using impolite words and gestures. But homeschoolers are almost always very polite and respectful . :D
Yes of course! Please feel free to share this article in your circles; just remember to give credits.
Thanks again for your lovely comment, and apologies for my late reply!
This article on homeschooling is a great contribution for all homeschoolers! Not only can homeschoolers benefit from this, but also people in general who don't understand what homeschooling really is. I totally agree with you that as a homeschooler you have to take charge of your studies,and make your own academic targets.
ReplyDeleteOverall, this is a coherent and well-written article.Keep posting stuff like this!